Knowing everything isn't always good

We don't really have to know everything. because knowing everything isn't always good. and we don't always have to TRY to know everything. Especially about something people don't want us to know. And especially about something that we know will make us unhappy. 

When people don't want you to know something, that's it. Quit asking and quit searching already. They know what they're doing, they know why they're not telling you. Otherwise the result will be unpleasant. 

Some stories are better left untold. 

Learn to let go. By that, I mean learn to let go of the desire to know. Maybe you're just not meant to know about something, because maybe the second when you figure it all out later, you'd be truly upset. Devastated. And then you will regret your actions. You'd wish you didn't know what you didn't know earlier. But guess what? Memories are not easily erased. Unless, maybe, if you're a computer.

And so you just don't have to go beyond. Beyond what is already meant for you to know. 

Macam. Contohnya, this child is suspecting that he is adopted. Dia bukan anak kandung but his family never told him anything. So he looks into the matter, investigate and everything and it is finally proven that he's not an anak kandung. And then he gets upset and, decides to gantung diri.

That was just a stupid example. I exaggerated to make it somewhat clear. Maybe in real situation, ummmm maybe this girl is stalking her crush's facebook wall, all the time, to see if some other girls are chatting with her crush, yet only to arouse jealousy in herself. What do you get after all? Isn't that one of the stupidest things to do? Doing something that you know very well is going to upset you? 

Well, most people want to be happy, in case you didn't know.

Another thing is about trying to korek something that people don't want you to know. Everybody has secrets. You have things you don't want people to know, too. Try to think of what would you feel if somebody actually figures out something you've been intending to hide. A secret, is a secret, for a reason.

This thing, is a very good portrayal of 'there's a Hikmah for everything that happens'. You know, there's always a good reason why you're not meant to know about something no matter how badly you want to. After all it's not like you're losing your life if you don't get to know everything.